How To Come Out Of The Coronavirus Crisis Better And Happier Than Before

Here's how to turn this from a crisis into an opportunity! 

When a crisis happens it has a way of showing us what is really important and what isn't. This is such a blessing to get this perspective that we might otherwise not see. You can't change what's happening but you can use it to your benefit and take something valuable from it. 

A crisis has a wonderful way of helping us to see things clearer and to see what is really important. Don't ignore that and go right back to old habits once it's over. Let this time help you to see what is really important. Use this as a time for change and new beginnings! 

As things get shut down and become scarce it can really help us to appreciate all the luxuries we do have that we take for granted. Really take some time to focus on the things you might normally take for granted. Know that we are lucky and privileged to have what we do have and so many don't have that luxury. Appreciate what you do still have right now and see how lucky you were to have those things that may not be available right now. Once those luxuries are back you will be able to enjoy and relish in them. 

Once things do get back to normal, and they will, make a point to never take those things for granted again. Wake up each day knowing how lucky you are for all you have. Get excited for when this is over and you can be so happy appreciating all the wonderful things there are on this earth. 

Right now most of you have a lot of extra time on your hands. Appreciate this time and really nurture and take care of yourself. Too many run themselves ragged. If that's you, really focus on getting rest and on how you can get out of that pattern that depletes you once things get back to normal. Use this time to build and nurture yourself. 

Take stock of what is working in your life and what isn't. Plan ways to change things. Make a point that you will not go back into any patterns that are holding you back. Use this time so you can really create your best life going forward. Take time to really sit with yourself and get some clarity. It's so valuable to have this extra time to finally listen to your inner self. 

In regular life are you doing a lot of things you feel obligated to do but don't want to? Let this time show you that you don't have to do those things. Work out new ways going forward. Obligation always brings you away from your purpose and depletes you. Let go of any obligations in your life that you don't want. Once this crisis is over start fresh and really create what you want.

Always know that at anytime we could cross over at a time if crisis or not so live each day fully and don't take it for granted. Let this help you to see how to change your life so you are getting the most out of it. I can assure you that death isn't anything to be afraid of. Be more afraid of not fully living your life! 

When you get stuck in fear, instead try to look at the bigger picture. Our earth life is just a small blip in our existence. No matter what everything will be okay. I want to say this again no matter what you will be okay! Don't let fear get the best of you!

Focusing on the fear and worry only makes things worse and lessens your immune system.  Focus on making great changes and get excited for the new more purposeful life you are about to embark on. Get excited about how much you will appreciate everything when things are back to normal. 

There are so many great uses of this time that you can use to change your life forever. Take full advantage! Use this extra time to better yourself so you can really get a lot out of this. Maybe online classes or anything you haven't had time for. Now is the time! 

Use this time to hug and have quality time with your family and pets. Work on projects around the house that you never had time for. Read up on a subject you have always wanted to. The options are limitless! 

Really make this a productive time. That will help you to let some of that nervous energy out and focus it on something good. Focusing on worry just builds up inside you but focusing on and doing something productive can help let it out and make your future better! Actively working on creating a better future for yourself going forward will give you a sense of control in a time where most don't feel in control. 

Over all just really take care of yourself and take stock of your life. Use this time to learn about yourself and make any needed changes so that you can come out of this crisis better than before! Make this a productive time that changes your life going forward! Let this be your new beginning. The slate is wiped clean now, create it how you really want going forward! 

If you haven't had one yet now is a perfect time for a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. Use this time to learn your purpose and fix what has been blocking you so you can start fresh! Here is the full info for that: 

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How To Really Forgive And Move Forward

Here is how to finally forgive and take back your life!

As you probably already know forgiveness is for you not for that person. It's not condoning what they did it's freeing yourself from that heavy burden. Forgiveness is by no means saying it's okay. Forgiveness is saying I'm not gonna let this harbor inside me and hurt me anymore. 

Keeping the bigger picture in mind that all of us have already made pretty much every kind of bad mistake we can in our many lives can help put things in perspective. Knowing we have all been where that person is at some point, even though it may seem unfathomable right now, can make it easier to move forward. See yourself in that person and let that help you to see them through a less angry lens.

Everyone will always have consequences for their actions. There is no way to escape our consequences so they will have to settle that karma at some point. When they cross over they will feel every ounce of pain they caused you exactly as you felt it. So let go of any need to make them pay, that is not in your hands. Let go of that burden you don't have to be the judge and jury. And if you do seek revenge that will only give you karma you will have to face. It's never worth it. 

You don't have to be around this person if you think you shouldn't. But what you do need to do is let it go because it is only hurting you not them. Thinking and replaying it actually feeds them energy and gives them attention which I'm sure is not what you want to do. 

Trying to understand where they were coming from can also cause breakthroughs towards forgiveness. Put yourself in their shoes. Factor in all the circumstances and where they are and have been in life. When we know better we do better. If their consciousness isn't there they just don't fully understand their actions. 

Another thing to keep in mind on an even deeper level (which can sometimes be hard to understand on earth) we are all one. So their mistake is your mistake and you forgiving them is also forgiving yourself. 

Find something, anything where you can relate to this person in some way. Finding similarities can help to shatter the walls in between you and humanize them more. 

Is there any element of judgement you have towards this person? Judgement usually comes from our own insecurities about ourselves. Know that this person is right where they are supposed to be based on their choices at this moment. Judging their choices isn't up to us. 

We all have free will to make our choices and judging others on their free will won't get you anywhere. Any time you feel like you are judging someone turn it inwards instead. Think to yourself Is that something you do that you wish you didn't and that's why it's striking a cord? When we are above something it can't affect us so look deeply at why it is affecting you. 

Instead put focus into what you can do in your own life to make changes to make you happy. You can't live anyone else's life for them so always focus on yourself and what you can do differently. 

Getting distracted by others and worrying about their lives just takes you off your own path. So look for that, notice it, and turn things back to yourself. Always turn things back to you. If a person is hurting you take control and get them out of your life. Know that you always have the power over you. Your choices attracted this person. Nothing ever just happens to us we create it.

Look into and change whatever you need to. Knowing you always have the power and taking steps to prevent a similar wrongdoing in the future can help you to feel secure and move forward. 

Can you have better boundaries in the future? Think that through and implement it going forward.

Protect yourself from more wrongs but don't put a shell up so that you can't let any good things in as well. A wall up to protect you not only protects you from letting bad in but also any good. It also can attract more bad to you because you are telling the universe you need protection and you create your life so then into your life will enter circumstances you need protection from 

Leave that in the past and focus on what changes you can make to move forward and be happy. Sitting in what happened in the past will only block you from moving forward. Once you release that you will be open to new opportunities going forward. Remind yourself that you have probably made that same mistake in a past life. Remind yourself that not everyone is on the same place in their journey as you and that is perfect. 

Forgiving and moving forward is better for your soul so don't worry about theirs! We can only control our own lives. You can do this! Focus on creating your best life and leave the past there. You will feel so much better! 

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How To Use Your Dreams To Help Your Life!

Most people don't pay much attention to their dreams. They just brush them off and move on. But our dreams can be used as a tool to help your life. Here's how to use your dreams to your benefit. 

The first step is to set intentions. As with anything in life being clear on your intentions is very helpful. Your spirit guides work for you and can only do what you want them to. So be clear with what you want so they can help you. 

Be clear with your spirit guides that you want to pay attention to your dreams and use them as a tool. Having a dream journal is very useful. Keep a notebook by your bed to record everything you remember. As you do this consistently you will start to remember more and more. 

If you usually don't remember your dreams,  setting an intention to remember them before bed will help. Ask that they be helpful to you and guide you. 

Every so often, look back through your dream journal to see any patterns or perhaps things that you dreamed about that have happened. A lot of people have psychic dreams but aren't aware of it. Look at what stands out to you from your entities in your dream journal. 

Notice things in your dreams that came from something you saw on tv or things you were thinking about. Those may not need further looking into unless you think you need to do some more thinking about them. 

If there were some worries coming up that came through in a dream,  really look into them and process them. Is there a way you can take control of it better so you don't have to worry? If you feel there is nothing you can do, just release it and know that it's out of your hands and let that worry go. There's nothing you can do just trust it will work out. Ask your guides to help with the matter and move forward. 

Working through any issues you have during the day is important. If you have things you are suppressing or not dealing with, most of your dreams will be bogged down with those issues as a way of trying to release them. 

You can look at what's happening in those dreams to try to interpret what issues you are avoiding and need to work on so you can move forward. Take time to fully feel and process anything you are going through. Just fully feeling them and not suppressing them takes away their power and helps you to release it. 

Our subconscious works things out sometimes in strange ways through our sleep but there is a method to the madness. 

Notice do you have a lot of nightmares? That can show a lot of subconscious feelings coming up. The more you can deal with those things while you are awake, the less that will happen.

Sometimes medications can affect dreams as well and that may be a little more difficult to assess the meaning. 

After you have gotten used to writing down your dreams and figuring them out, then you can go to an even deeper step. Before you go to bed set an intention and tell your guides that you would like your dreams to help you figure out a specific problem you are having and note that in your dream journal. Then any dreams that night look at through the lens of that specific problem for some answers. 

It can be tricky but overtime you will start to see the meanings and it will get easier and easier. It just takes practice.

Dreams are also a common place where crossed over loved ones come to visit you. These dreams will feel so real like you were right there with them because you were. Dreams can be an easier way for your crossed over loved ones to contact you but you must be well rested and get good consistent sleep for them to be able to.

When you aren't sleeping right that is always a warning sign that something needs to change in your life. So really explore your life and see what changes need to be made. A lot of times if you aren't  getting enough sleep, then your body never gets to the dream level or if you do you don't remember them.

Take time to meditate on your specific dreams and listen to your intuition for the meanings. Over time you will start to see patterns and how your subconscious interprets things. Everyone's dreams form in a different way but over time you will start to see how your dreams work and that will help you to figure out the meanings. 

Looking at just one dream can be confusing if you aren't used to it but it's the patterns over time that help you to interpret. Stick with the dream journal and keep working on it and before you know it you will be using your dreams to help understand yourself more and to live your best life. They are a tool, use them!

If you are having sleep problems it's possible some energetic things are going on like you are traveling to negative astrals. Also, the more aligned you are to your purpose and who you are at soul level, the better your sleep and everything else will get. I can help with those things and more in a Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing. The info for that is here: 

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How To Get In Touch With Your Intuition And Really Use It To Your Benefit!

First of all it's important to know that you already have intuition, everyone does. Some are more in touch with it than others and some just ignore it completely but either way it is there. You already have the tool you just need to learn how to use it! 

The following is how to get in touch with your intuition and start really using it to your benefit. It's a gift that you already have, why not use it? 

Being centered in yourself is very helpful for this process. If you are always frantic and in chaos, it's hard to hear your intuition clearly with all that extra noise in your life. So really put focus on balance in your life and centering in on yourself more. Meditation is very helpful for this.

Setting intentions is key as with anything in your life. Talk to your spirit guides and let them know you want to start using your gift of intuition more and they will help you. Be clear with what you want. Trust that if you are clear with what you want that they will guide you and help you get there. 

A lot of doubt in yourself can make it harder to trust your intuition so looking into that and working on trusting yourself more will really help. To do that focus on making smaller goals and always accomplishing them so you can start to trust and believe in yourself more. Stick to and follow through with your plans. That will help you to know you can do what you want and have more trust in yourself. 

The more you trust in yourself and your intuition, the better it will get. You are born with intuition but it's like a muscle the more you use it the better it gets! 

Focus on your great qualities more and put active work into those that you think could use some work. You are like clay and can build yourself into exactly what you want! Take charge and be who you know you can be. Believe in you so you can believe in your intuition and trust it. 

Taking a look back can help put things in perspective. Look back in the past when you didn't listen to your intuition but wished you did. How did it feel? Where did you feel that nudge that came through? Was it in your stomach, your chest, your head? What senses did you feel?

We have all wished we listened to our intuition at some point. Locating a physical location of it, can help you in the future so you can learn what it feels like. This takes some time and practice but just opening up to pay attention to it makes a lot of headway just in itself. 

Really start paying attention. Most people are so closed off that they miss those things. Be open and pay attention that is the most important thing when building your intuition. 

Most people get the nudge of intuition but ignore it until they look back and wish they listened. Start actively listening to it. The more you do that the more intuitive nudges you will get. Once your intuition sees you are going to use and listen to it, it will start flowing more and more. You have the answers so trust that and listen to them! 

Journaling can also be helpful. Keep track of nudges or even just thoughts. Keep track of dates and times and how and where you felt the impulse. 

Look back on your notes often and you will see what your intuition was telling you and you will learn your intuition language better and better. Overtime you will start to notice a pattern and will be able to pinpoint when your intuition is talking to you immediately without any doubts.

Be patient with yourself. Your intuition is like a muscle that you need to use and practice with in order to build it. But once you build it up and trust it, it will change your life! 

Imagine just always knowing what choice is best for you and sensing something coming so you can course correct before it happens. Intuition is a beautiful tool that can make a world of difference in your life. It's like going from being blind to seeing clearly. 

Once you start listening to it and understanding it, then it’s time to start tapping into it when you want and not just waiting for it to happen. To do this take a quiet time out and a few breaths to center and clear your head. Be clear on what you want help with and listen to what you feel, hear, or sense. This will get stronger and stronger the more you do it.

Take the time to nurture and build your intuition to make your life easier. I promise it's worth the effort you put in! 

The more aligned you are with your purpose and who you are at soul level, the easier it is to use your intuition. If you would like help aligning and clearing blocks in your way and much more I can do that for you in a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. The info on that is here: 

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How Our Past Lives Affect Us today And How To Move Forward

We are way more than this one earth life we are living now. We have all lived many lives, some even in other star systems. Who we are right now is because of the combination of lives we have had before today. 

Some lives we do great and progress far soul wise, while others we make a lot of mistakes and go backwards. We are a soul that is always constantly evolving, it never ends. 

Every single choice we make has a consequence. Some are good and some are bad. Once we make a similar choice over and over, it makes it more likely we will continue that pattern of choice. 

If you die in one life without getting out of a negative pattern, that pattern will continue in your next life. When we are born we start off exactly where we left off in our last life and those same patterns continue. Some continue negative patterns for many lives. The only way to get out of those patterns is to start making new choices from now on. 

The trick is knowing what patterns are holding us back. Most have been so ingrained in these negative patterns for so many lives that they seem normal.

A negative pattern for one person could actually be a positive one for another. We are all different and have to make choices based on who we are at soul level and our purpose gift. So when we don't know those things it can be hard to know what is right or wrong for us. 

The first step is to really look back in your life and see patterns that you have continued that have caused issues in your life. Do you make the same negative choices from one relationship to the next? Do you run away when things get rough? There are thousands of patterns that could be holding you back and again it is different for everyone. 

Looking at what has repeated over and over in your life is the first step to start recognizing your negative patterns. Once you recognize these patterns, start making choices to do the opposite next time. As you do it will get easier and easier and you will get out of these patterns! 

Negative patterns cause you to be misaligned and block you from being your most abundant self. The goal is to align perfectly to your purpose and who you are at soul level. The more you do that, the better your life will get. The more you align, the easier it is for you to see what is right and what is wrong for you. 

Most of the time we know what patterns are causing us problems we just are afraid to make changes. Change can be scary but it's the only way to get to a better place and is always worth it. 

So listen to those nudges from your gut. You know what changes would be good for you deep down. Listen and do them! Trust yourself! The longer you stay in the patterns, the worse it gets and the harder it is to get out of them. So now is the time to make those changes and get to a happier place! 

Once you overcome and change any patterns holding you back through your choices, you can get out of it finally and things will be much better for you!

If you get out of these patterns it will not only help you in this life but in future lives as well! You owe it to yourself to free yourself from these blocks. 

Only you have the power to create a good life for yourself. Being on the other side of the blocks is a peace that you can't even fathom. 

As you make changes it will be clearer what the next step is. So free yourself and get into healthy patterns now before it gets harder! 

If you need help finding and clearing the patterns that are holding you back I can do that for you in an Akashic Records Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing.  In that I can also tell you your purpose and who you are at soul level plus so much more! The information on that is here: 

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8 Things To Do When You're Single To Prepare For Your Next Relationship

1. Focus on you!

It's so important to put a lot of focus into yourself and your growth while you are single. We change a lot over time, so take the time to learn who you are now compared to who you were. 

Indulge in things you want to do and learn more about yourself. The more you express your true self, the better you are to attract a true love. Really get to your core and find yourself!

2. Be clear on what you really want

What do you want in your next relationship? What don't you want? Or maybe you don't want a relationship for a while. Any answer to this is perfect as long as it's what you really want. 

Be selfish and figure out what you want. The clearer you are with what you want and don't want, the more your spirit guides can help you to get there. You have to be clear with yourself about it first before you can attract it. 

3. Look at previous patterns

We all have recurring patterns in our lives and in our relationships. Until we learn from them and make changes they will keep occurring in every relationship over and over no matter who we are with. So it's so important to get to the bottom of and learn from those patterns. 

Have some reflective time and look back on patterns that have repeated in your life and your relationships. Don't judge yourself but see what you'd like to change going forward and in your next relationship. If you want different you must do different going forward. 

Don't focus on what the other person did or didn't do, focus on you. We can only control ourselves, not anyone else. By changing your choices going forward you can make for a happier relationship next time! 

4. Think about these things

Take some time to really reflect, think about, and answer these questions for yourself:

Did I miss or ignore red flags in my last relationship?

Did I check out of the relationship too soon because I was afraid to get close?

Did I stay in the relationship too long hoping things would change?

Did I lose myself in that relationship?

Did I do all I could? 

What can I do differently next time to be even better? 

Answering these questions can help guide you for what to change going forward so be honest with yourself. 

5. Let go of the past

Once you have dissected and learned from your past you have to let it go. We can never go forward if we are still stuck in the past and that goes for everything not just relationships. 

We have a certain amount of room for things in our lives and in our heart and holding onto the past takes up so much room it prevents you from creating a better future! 

Take the lessons you learned with you but leave the rest behind. Focus on what you want in the future! Use those lessons as a golden ticket to get what you really want next time around!

6. Heal anything unresolved

Be sure to work on and heal any unresolved issues. If you don't they will be baggage you carry with you. That extra baggage only makes things more difficult for you so do yourself a favor and work on it now! I promise it's less painful to work on it then it is to carry it around with you! 

 7. Focus on what you can do to be better

Think about all the wonderful things you can do better next time. Get excited about the new more evolved person you will be in your next relationship! You can have that better relationship and it all starts with you! 

8. Focus on what you want to attract

If you want to attract stability in a partner start creating more stability in your own life. If you want to attract compassion see how you can be more compassionate in your life. If you want to attract passion add more passion in your life. Whatever you want to attract add more of that to your own life! 

If you really want to work on yourself, find out your purpose, get blocks that are in your way cleared, and so much more I  recommend a Soul Realignment Reading And Clearing. The full information is here: 

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Why Living Your Purpose Can Help Your Health, Money, And So Much More!

Health issues occur when we aren't getting enough vital force energy into our bodies. Vital force energy is energy from source. We get vital force energy by living our purpose and aligning to who we are at soul level. The farther away we are living from who we are, the less vital force energy we get. 

Our soul needs to express itself authentically and when it doesn't it can cause us a whole host of issues. Unfortunately, so many people do not even know their purpose and who they really are at soul level. 

Over many lifetimes we make choices that start to bring us farther and farther away from who we really are. These cause blocks and restrictions in our lives blocking us from that vital force energy we desperately need. 

Most people continue to make the same kinds of negative choices life after life without even realizing it and get stuck in those patterns which makes it harder and harder to get back to who they really are. Who they really are gets buried in all of these blocks and restrictions.

It's important to know that everyone is different.  There is no general right or wrong choice despite what society says. A negative choice for me could be a positive choice for you. That's why it's so important to know your purpose and who you are at soul level so you know what is positive for you.

The more you align yourself to your purpose and who you are at soul level, the better your life gets mentally, physically and emotionally. The state of your health and finances is always a good way to tell how aligned you are. The more aligned you are, the better your health and finances will be. 

Once you know your purpose and who you are at soul level, then you can make choices that align which will make things much easier for you. When you aren't aligned, you can get stuck and it will feel like you're always working against yourself.  It will always feel like a struggle. But when you are aligned to your purpose and who you are at soul level, it will feel like the universe is on your side and working for you. 

Everyone has a gift and it's so important to use it! Using it will save you so much trouble! When you align to your purpose gift it's like everything is working for you not against you. You can feel that sense of purpose and wonderful serendipity in your life. 

So many have the concept of what their purpose is wrong. Our purpose isn't a specific job. Our purpose is to use our special purpose gift as much as we can and how we choose. We always have free will. The more you use and align with your gift, the better your life will get.

Aligning in this life can also save trouble in future lives. So knowing and living your purpose can not only make things better in this life but in future lives as well.

For those that already know their gift, really embody it in all areas of your life not just what you do for work. Even from how you cook, to how you get the kids ready and to school, to how you do everyday things. 

The more you align the more inspirations and opportunities you will get to align even more. It is extra important to use it as much as you can for what you do for work because that's how you will create abundance. You can never create abundance if you aren't using your purpose gift. You may get a good paying job without it, but you will always manifest extra expenses and won't be able to actually create abundance. 

We all can be abundant in every part of our lives. Every single person has that opportunity no matter where you started. Without knowing your purpose it's just trial and error to make the right choices to get there. But when you know your purpose and the right choices and what to align to it makes it so much easier! 

So use your purpose in everything you do, especially what you do for work and not only your health will improve but everything in your life will! The more you fight against your purpose, the harder things will be. I want everyone to have the gift of knowing and living their purpose! 

If you already know your purpose and who you are at soul level and would like some help implementing it and aligning even better to it I have psychic coaching services available on my website.

If you have health problems really work on aligning, it can help you in so many ways. Know that you don't have to have to suffer but you must get out of negative patterns and align better to gain some ground with your health issues. It is always up to you but changing your choices will change your life! The more you do that the better you get. 

I am speaking from experience. I myself have eliminated a lot of health problems and was actually bedridden for almost 10 years. I was having to have 2 surgeries every six months for years and was told I would for the rest of my life. I have not had those surgeries in over 3 years and am better than ever! So just keep going and know that you can get out of this. NOthing is impossible but know it's not up to anyone else only you can do it yourself! Nothing ever just happens to us it's all because of our choices either in this life or from a past life. The good news is you can change your choices and help everything in your life including your health! 

If you don't know your purpose and who you are at soul level I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing. In that I can also find and clear your blocks and restrictions and let you know what patterns to get out of going forward to help you plus so much more. The full information on it is here: 

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9 Things To Do When You're Stuck And Don't Know What To Do Next

1. Try something new

Do something different! Doing anything that you don't normally do will get the juices flowing in your brain and help inspire you. When you are stuck doing the same things over and over, your brain and intuition just go on autopilot. Your brain doesn't need to get inspirations if you never do anything new. 

2. Get out of your comfort zone 

Getting out of your comfort zone can really help you to start creating ideas for what to do next. When you are stuck in a comfort zone and aren't doing anything new your brain gets stuck there and can't help you to get inspiration for something new. So just do something new, anything! 

It will feel uncomfortable at first but that's how you know you are out of your comfort zone! Just keep going with it! You can never, ever move forward by staying stuck in your comfort zone. Open up that space in your brain again and show yourself that you CAN do it! 

3. Look at what you have been hiding from

Often we get stuck because we are trying hard not to face something. But facing the issue will take a lot less energy than using your energy to resist it. Face and deal with whatever it is. That will free you to move forward. 

If you are stuck in the past and have unresolved issues, you can't move forward. It's like a rubber band on your legs, every time you think you are moving forward it snaps you right back. 

Resolve past issues so you can move on. If you need to forgive someone or forgive yourself, do it! Take the lessons you learned with you but leave the past where it belongs in the past! Letting go of the past will free you to receive new inspirations going forward. 

4. Create

Create something, anything. A new food dish, a piece of art, a song, a new business plan etc. It can be anything but create, create, create! Even just coloring in a coloring book! Whatever it is just create! Open up those creative juices and enjoy it! Creation can really help those that are stuck to move forward. This helps new ideas to flow.

5. Exercise

When you aren't active everything can sort of get stuck. Getting some exercise opens up that flow again and lets those inspirations in. Exercise is a great way to open up to creative thoughts.  

6. Set clear intentions 

Be clear on what it is you do want and your spirit guides can help you to get there. The clearer you are, the more helpful they can be. Be sure to be actively taking steps towards what you want. If you keep saying you want something but never actually start taking steps towards it, your guides think you must not really want it and can't help you. 

As you go for and reach other goals then new ones will come to you. Having a bunch of goals but not doing anything towards them keeps you stuck. There's no more room for new ideas if you already have a bunch but haven't made any steps towards them.

7. Follow the inspirations you do get

Don't ignore inspirations you get. Don't tell yourself "I can't do that" or talk yourself out of it. You wouldn't get that inspiration if it wasn't possible. Always trust that you can! 

8. Get enough rest

It's hard to be inspired when you are running on empty. Get enough rest and take care of yourself so that you can handle and create more. If you can't handle what you already have going on, it would be pointless to get inspired with something new. 

On that same note, remove things/people from your life that are no longer needed or working for you. So many waste their time with obligations they think they have to do. Really focus on only the most important things to you. So many do things that aren't important to them when they don't really need to. 

We only have a limited amount of time don't waste it! Make every moment count! Look at what you can let go of to free up more time for what really matters to you. 

9. Meditate

Making time to consistently meditate can really give you a place to get those inspirations and to rest your mind. Your mind needs rest as much as your body does. Your mind stays alert while you sleep so if you aren't meditating you are never actually resting your mind! Get rid of that brain fog and rest your mind! 

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Why And How Having Clear Intentions Can Change Your Life!

We all have free will and all our circumstances come from our choices. Our spirit guides are there to help guide us and keep us on track for what we want. If we aren't clear on what we want, then they can't help us. In fact those that stop creating and stop having intentions will often lose one of their spirit guides because they aren't needed. Our spirit guides also learn from guiding us, they don't want to be where they aren't needed. 

There are also special beings that help us to send our intentions out into the world and situations  to help the right things to come to us based on our intentions. The clearer we are with what we want the stronger our intention signal is sent out onto the world and the better that can help us.

If you go through life unclear of what you want, you will get back a mishmash of unclear situations in your life. But if you are very clear with your intentions and make them clear often, then more serendipitous circumstances will show up for you. 

Those serendipitous situations can only work for you and come about if you make what you want clear. You are the creator in your life so be clear and intentional with it! 

Think about it, if you went into a job interview all disorganized and not knowing what you want, you aren't going to get the job. Use that same preparedness and intentionality in all areas of your life. 

This can be very helpful in relationships and in manifesting new relationships. Be clear with what you want! You get what you put out into the world so be super clear! Often, by looking at what kind of people you are attracting into your life can show you what signal you are sending out. Use that information to tweak your actions and change that signal if needed. 

Some people are unclear on what exactly they want. When that is the issue, the key is to start somewhere and do something new. As you do that you will get clearer and clearer on what you do and don't want. You need to experience things to really get an idea of what you do want. 

And of course as you learn and grow what you want will change. When that happens, be clear on that new intention. Change and growth is a good thing so don't ever think you have to stay on a path that you no longer want. 

I write down all my specific intentions and goals and read them over at least once a day. The clearer you are with yourself on what you want, the more your guides can help you. 

But of course you must always take new actions towards your goals. Your guides can make it easier but it won't just happen, you have to create what you want by taking new action. 

The actions and choices you are making now are bringing you the exact circumstances you are getting now. If you want something different you must do something different. 

I want to challenge you to really get clear with yourself on exactly what you want in your life in all areas. Write it down and read it often. If something changes cross it off and make the needed changes. When you manifest something cross it off. 

This is a continual list. As you achieve one goal, you will think of a new one. We will never stop learning and wanting to create more. That's why we are here. So start with where you are now and intentionally create what you want in your life. 

So for your financial life what exact amount of money would you like to earn in a week? In a month? What service or skill would you ultimately like to use to earn that money? Are there steps you need to take to learn or refine that skill? What new actions can you take towards that? 

For relationships what elements do you want in a relationship? What would that relationship look like in an ideal scenario. What would you two do together? What steps can you take to get there? 

For your health and well being what changes would you like? What can you do with where you are right now towards those changes? 

Set specific intentions for each area of your life. Really get clear with yourself and with what you put out into the world consistently and it will help to change your life! So what do you want? 

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How To Tell If You Are Living Your Purpose

Are you living your purpose? The biggest tells to know if you are living your purpose and how much are the state of your health and finances. The better your health and finances are, the more aligned you are to your purpose.

Those that aren't aligned at all with their purpose will not have abundance in their lives and will have health issues. The more abundant you are and the better your health is the more you are using your gift. It's important to align your purpose to everything you do in life not just what you do for work.

There are different levels. The more you align to your purpose the better your life gets. You can align it to how you clean, how you cook or don't cook, how you get the kids ready for school, even how you get to work etc. It all depends on what your specific purpose gift is, everyone is different.

The more you bring your purpose into your life the better your life will be. If you aren't aligned to your purpose there will be a lot of road blocks and struggle in your life. Those road blocks and that struggle are there to tell you that you need to do something different.

Unfortunately most people just accept being unhappy and think there is nothing they can do. But that's not true, everything is in your control by making necessary changes.

Anything you don't like in your life look at what steps you can take to change it. Don't just give into it and accept it! This is where knowing your purpose makes it easier to know what next steps to take.

This is an ongoing thing where over time you align more and more. No matter how much you are aligned there is always a new level you can go to to align more with your purpose. You want to incorporate it into things you do regularly everyday to really make the most impact. This is a wonderful ongoing process to learning about yourself and using your purpose to help others. As you align more and more your life gets better and you are able to help others with your gift which brings a lot of fulfillment.

Our purpose gift is usually something we don't see as a gift because it comes so easily and naturally to us. So many people are not aware of their purpose gift which results in struggle. They think everyone must have that gift because it comes so easy. So they sort of ignore their gift and don't use it like they should because they don't see it as a gift. Are you ignoring your precious purpose gift?

Living your purpose is not just doing some preplanned specific job. It is using your purpose gift in whatever you choose to do. The more you use your gift and align with it, the better your life will get. We all have free will to choose how we use our gift but using it to the maximum brings about a much better life not only for you but for those around you as well.

Knowing your child's purpose gift can help so much in understanding them and raising them. I love when I can give a parent their kids purpose gift, it changes both lives. A parent can then gently guide them based on their gift! What a gift to give a child so they don't have to struggle to find their purpose! And what a gift to the parent to understand their child on a much deeper level.

For those that know their purpose gift, ask yourself every step of the day how you can align that task better to your purpose gift. Ask yourself how you can use your purpose to serve others. As you help others with your purpose gift it helps you as well and is a perfect balance.

If you don't know your purpose gift I can find that out for you and so much more by going into your Akashic Records in a Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing. The information on that is here:

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Why Being Obsessed With Finding Love Actually Repels It And How To Attract It Instead

Most people want to find love but they are sabotaging themselves without realizing it. Here is how you may be sabotaging yourself and how to change that! 

Being obsessed and desperate for love sends out a desperation energy which actually repels love. When you need something to that degree it sends out an energy of lack. Lack energy will always repel love and only attract more lack into your life including finances.

You have to be happy with you to attract real love. When you aren't happy with yourself you will feel a desperate need for love as a way to fill that void. That will never work. No one else can fill a void for you, only you can do that for yourself. When you are empty within yourself you will only attract an empty love. Unfortunately so many get stuck in this cycle with one empty love after another. 

Love always comes from within, no matter what. So it's always important to work on you first then all areas of your life will fall into place. 

Focus on what you can do to create happiness and fullness in your life. Remember a partner should only be the cherry on top of your own fulfillment not your fulfillment. You must find yourself first, this is so important. So many want to skip this step but it's the most important thing when trying to attract love.

If you aren't happy with yourself you will only attract those that aren't happy with you and those that you aren't happy with. If you aren't treating yourself right, you will attract those that won't treat you treat you right as well. You have to treat yourself well first before you can find someone else to treat you well. By not treating yourself well you are putting out there that you aren't valuable and worth it which only attracts that in a partner. 

Look at how you are treating yourself compared to who is in your life. There will be a direct mirror. If you don't like who you are attracting you always have to look at how you are treating yourself. That will always directly affect who is in your life.

So when you want love, turn your focus on yourself first. Work on loving yourself and creating a life you love. Add more fun into your life. Happiness, fun, and confidence attracts love.

It's important to get to a place where you are happy without love and know that it's not something you need. It's just a nice added benefit. Know that you can find that love and all that you are craving from within. Make that empowering! You don't need anyone else to get what you need! You have full control of your happiness which is so exciting! Then once you have it you will attract love if that's what you want. 

The actions we take are what is put out into the world. So really look at what you are putting out. Are you choosing to settle for less than you deserve in any area of your life? Doing that will only attract a partner that will always be less than you deserve. 

Really look closely at all the choices you are making. Are you making choices out of desperation? Out of fear? Out of lack? Out of guilt? Those will only block you from real love. 

What we attract will always come from choices we make so really look deep at yourself. 

Find your confidence and create the life you really want, don't settle! Always know you have the power and it's already within you, use it!

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What Really Happens When You Suppress Your Emotions And 3 Steps To Use Them To Your Advantage Instead!

When you stuff down your emotions it causes havoc to you mentally, emotionally, and physically. So many times my clients come to me with an issue and in their reading it turns out the issue stemmed from stuffing their emotions down. 

Here's what happens to you when you stuff emotions down and how to use it to help you instead:

Emotions are energy in motion. E- MOTION. When you have an emotion that energy needs to be used productively or it will stay inside you and cause you harm. So let's say you have anger but you try to ignore it and stuff it down. That anger which is an emotion which again is energy in motion is now inside you. 

Think of it like a tornado inside you. The energy will continue to build and build which causes anxiety, depression, and eventually physical issues. Would you want a tornado inside you?

That anger you had will end up causing you worse issues if you don't let it out. It may come out years later at the worst possible time and in the worst possible way or it may come out 10 minutes from now but it's guaranteed that it will come out and you wont like it when it does. At that point after it built up so much you will feel like you have no control over it and that it is actually controlling you. 

So many people are living with lots of tornados inside of them and they don't realize that is what is causing their mental, emotional, and physical issues. 

Common ways people stuff down emotions is by overeating or abusing alcohol or drugs. Anything that is used to comfort, numb, and mask the emotions you are feeling is stuffing it down. 

You don't want to comfort yourself you want to feel and use that emotion energy and get it out right away so you don't need to be comforted. That energy has to come out somehow and if you choose to suppress it then it comes out by making you feel bad. 

Here are 3 steps to keep in control of that energy and not let it control you.

1. First it's important to feel the emotion. 

This seems like it is so hard in that moment and is why so many numb themselves instead. But if instead of ignoring and numbing you let yourself feel those feelings then very quickly they start to lose that power over you and you feel better. If you stuff it down you just end up feeling worse and worse about yourself for overeating or drinking etc. plus that tornado is still in you and will come to destroy you at a later time! 

1. Get that energy out! 

If you need to cry do it, if you need to scream, do it. If you need to speak or write your peace, do it! Whatever you do let it out! Don't let that tornado stay inside of you! You must get it out. If you stuff those emotions down and numb them, it will only get worse and worse for you. But if you feel and express them, it immediately gives it less power. There's no need to numb it if you get it out of you!  

1. The last step is to use that energy to your benefit. 

Use that anger, sadness, grief etc. as fuel to make changes and to create something good for yourself. Make positive changes to avoid getting in that position in again. Use your grief to help someone else. Use that anger to fuel yourself to create a better life to show that person that angered you etc. Use it. It is energy it is fuel! Use that tornado to help propel you and power you, not to destroy you! 

So instead take that anger and channel it into saying what you need to say or making changes so that situation that angered you can't happen again. Whatever you do use that energy productively to help solve that problem. This way you won't have evil tornados building up in you. Use that energy to create something positive in your life.

Our emotions are always there to show us that something needs to change. Use that energy productively and it will change your life for the better! Listen to your emotions, don't ignore them! Use them to your benefit! 

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Are You Making These 7 Common Mistakes That Block You From More Money?

We all have the ability to be infinitely abundant but it's always up to us and our choices to get there no matter where we started out in life. We start out in this life exactly where we left off in the last life. So make sure you aren't blocking your abundance with these 7 things and change not only this life for the better but future lives as well! 

1. Being overly obsessed with clipping coupons and looking for a deal

A coupon here and there won't be that big of a deal but when you are constantly obsessed with getting a good deal and coupons etc. you are telling the universe that you don't plan to or want to make enough money so you have to use those and the universe says "as you wish".  

We all have free will and full control over our lives. Only we can make new choices to change our abundance level. 

Instead put that same energy into new actions to make some money. Everyone can make more and there is always a next step you can take towards it you just have to do it.  

2. Accepting that you will always have less

When you accept that you will always have less and just resign to that fact, you are telling the universe that's what you want. Don't accept anything you don't want in your life. Accepting something is saying " this is what I want in my life!" And the universe helps you to keep it that way. Know that you always have the power to change it! 

3. Hoping for the lottery or some other magic to solve all your problems 

Waiting for the lottery or some other magic to help out only gives up your power. Doing this gets rid of your control leaving making money up to some unforeseen force instead of up to you. Which remember you are the only one can do it, you have your own free will. 

Those fantasies actually keep you stuck in the money space you are in and you dream of the lottery as a comfort. Don't comfort yourself with a fantasy instead make changes to actually make it a reality!  

We all have the capabilities to be abundant but it's always up to us. The problem is even if you did win the lottery if you haven't made changes you will lose the money very fast because you can't sustain it. That's why most lottery winners lose it fast and end up worse than they started. 

Magical thinking and hoping some money will just be thrown into your life and will change everything only keeps you farther from money. You have to first take responsibility and know that only you and your choices got you where you are right now and only you can change that. 

The good news is if you step into your power and know you have control you can make changes and create that money yourself! Empower yourself! 

4. Not knowing where you stand financially

Not looking at bills and not knowing your exact debt only disempowers you. You have to be in reality to create a new reality! You cannot move forward without knowing exactly where you stand right now first.

Being in denial of where you stand tells the universe you don't want to know, have control over, or be responsible for your own money.  No more can come your way if you show you won't be responsible for it. 

Even though it's hard to really look at the reality of every bill and every dollar going in and out, it's a very important step towards abundance. Having the facts and knowing exactly what you are working with is an important step to changing it. 

You can't move forward with your head buried in the sand. You have to show the universe you are responsible and can handle more money before you can have it. 

5. Leaving money in someone else's control or power

You are the only one that has control over your money. When you put your money in someone else's control and don't pay attention to it, you are giving up your power. You are saying to the universe "I do not want to be responsible for money" so no more will come your way. 

Take back your power. Know that you and only you have the power to earn as much as you want if you are willing to take new action. Everyone has infinite possibilities but you have to go for them! 

6. Doing something you hate for a living to get more money

We can only be truly abundant when we love what we do. We must enjoy and use our purpose in what we do to earn money. If you aren't, you may make a lot of money but you will always manifest more expenses so that you can never actually be abundant. We are not meant to struggle in a job we hate everyday. Find and do what you enjoy!

7. Doing the same things you have been doing but hoping for more money to just appear

We all have the ability to be abundant but it's up to us to make changes. What you are doing now equals the money you are earning now. You can never get something different without doing something different. If you do the same thing you will always get the same thing. There are always new actions you can take right now where you are towards abundance. 

The more you live your purpose the more abundant you will be in all areas of your life. If you don't know your purpose I can find out for you in a Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing. This is the link for info on that: www.psychicmediumreadingsbykristine.com/shop/soul-realignment-reading 

But for now really focus on what comes easy to you. Our purpose is usually something we don't even see as a gift because it comes so easy to us that we think everyone else can do it too. That's just because it is a special gift and it seems easy to you! 

Focus on what you enjoy that comes easy to you and what service you can bring the world that brings you fulfillment. Even if at first you think you can't make as much money doing it, in the long run you will always end up more abundant. 

Don't waste your gift! Use your purpose gift and get more fulfilled and abundant at the same time. Find what you love! It's never too late! 

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8 Ways To Survive Through and Make the Most Out Of a Break Up

Going through a breakup can be rough but here are some tips to make the most of it and get yourself to the otherside of it quicker. 

1. Be kind to yourself

First of all, this is a time to really nurture and take care of yourself. Don't push yourself. Don't beat yourself up about anything from the past. Take this time to focus on you and take care of yourself. Be gentle and kind to yourself. 

Emotional pain is just as real as physical pain so give yourself the same aftercare you would if you were injured. Beating yourself up will only re-injure that wound and open it back up so it can't heal. 

If you don't treat yourself well you will only attract others that won't treat you well. You are worthy and deserving of only the best, treat yourself accordingly! 

2. Let it out

Let out the emotions don't keep them in. It's so important to really feel the pain and sadness and release it. I know that's hard but it's so important. If you don't feel it it will stay inside you and cause you emotional and physical issues in the future.

So let it out! Cry or scream or whatever you need to do but feel it and let it out! If it stays inside it will only get worse. Let it out so it doesn't have power over you anymore then you can move forward. 

3. Look for the lessons

In every relationship there are lessons that are gifts we take with us forever and use in future relationships. Lessons will continue to be repeated over and over until we learn them. 

If you want things to be different in your next relationship, really take time to focus in on what you learned from that relationship and what changes you can make in the future so it doesn't repeat again.

4. Look at who you are currently attracting

Look at who you are currently attracting into your life compared to who you want to attract. The actions and choices we make in our lives directly affect who we attract into our lives. 

If you are attracting those that neglect you look at what ways you are neglecting yourself and make changes. Are you attracting those that aren't serious? If so look at what in your life you're not taking seriously enough or aren't committed to. 

Whatever you are attracting that you don't want, look inside you for where you are making those same kind of choices. Changing up the choices you are making especially towards yourself will help you to attract what you do want instead.

5. Add more of what you do want in your life

If you want more love in your life work on loving yourself more so you will attract that. If you want more fun in your life find ways to add more fun things that you love. The energy of fun and playfulness attracts love. Purposely add more of what you want into your life so you can attract more of it! 

6. Trust that there is a bigger reason 

Trust that there is a better reason and things will work out for the best. In the moment it can seem so devastating but there is a bigger plan and if that person isn't best for you it's important for that relationship to end so someone better for you can come.

If that person is really right then the breakup is for learning and is a lesson for either one of you or both of you. If it is right, the relationship will come back together.  

Be true to yourself and focus on yourself and what you want outside of the relationship. Changing your focus to you will help and if it is right that person will naturally come back.

7. Work on what YOU want

The more you work on creating what you want in your own life, the more you will attract those that are what you want. So for instance, if you settle for a job you hate you will attract relationships into your life where you always have to settle. 

Really look into all areas of your life and work on areas you aren't happy with. So many people think they don't have a choice but you do. With new actions you can start changing what you don't want in your life into what you do want. Your life is like clay, mold it how you want not how someone else wants or says you should. 

8. Focus on what/who you do have in your life

Instead of focusing on who you don't have anymore focus on who and what you do have. Appreciating what you do have helps you to attract more. So enjoy what you do have and know that you will get through this. 

Things will get better and this heartbreak will be worth it when you get to an even better place in your life with the right person for you. You have so much more control than you realize. If you work on these things you can get your love life going in the right direction and leave this heartbreak in the past! 

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10 Comforting Facts For Those That Have Lost A Pet

When we lose a pet it can be so devastating. They are pure love and it's heartbreaking to lose that. So I'd like to share what I've learned about crossed over pets through my readings over the years to hopefully help to comfort you in this hard time. 

1. You will see them again

Earth is temporary but the other side is forever. When you crossover you will see them again and it will be like no time has passed. On the other side you will reunite with them and continue on. This separation is only temporary. 

2. The greeting 

One thing I find very comforting is that when we first crossover not only do all our crossed over human loved ones greet us but also our pets.

I've heard many times how the pets practically knock the human loved ones out of the way because they are so excited to reunite. Just pure joy and excitement and a heartfelt reunion.

Another thing that I find exciting is that all of your pets that have crossed over will be together all at once. I have had many pets at different times in my life and knowing I'll be able to see them all together at once is so comforting and exciting. 

3. They are still around often

Very often pets come back to visit their owners on earth. I often hear that they visit in their favorite chair or spot and just try to bring some comfort. If you pay attention you can feel their presence. Some will smell, see, or feel them as well. 

4. They can still hear and see you

They can still hear you talk to them and feel your energy. Talk to them and tell them anything you wish. Nothing has to go unsaid. 

5. No guilt allowed

In my readings so many pet parents have felt guilty and so often the pet comes through to say they don't want that. Every reading is different but they almost always want to comfort you and to share their love. 

They never hold grudges their souls are just so pure. They never resent you for having to put them down or anything like that. They know the love that was behind it and they appreciate it.

 They don't want you to focus on "what if I did that." Let go of any guilt or what if's and just focus on the great love and times you shared. They don't hold grudges or resent a choice you made. Overall they want you happy more than anything. 

6. They are no longer on pain

It can be so rough to watch a pet suffer. When they do crossover they are no longer in pain and are free from any earthy issues. They are in a wonderful place and feel amazing and happy so let that give you comfort. 

7. Don't fear replacing them

Often in my readings pet parents feel so guilty about getting a new pet because they don't want them to think they are replacing them. But the pet says so often that they actually want you to get another pet. 

They want you to share more love with another. They see it as an honor to them for you to adopt another pet. They don't see it as a replacement for them but as a way to honor them and their life. 

So many pets need homes and you can honor them by showing love to another. Also, getting a new pet helps a lot in the grieving process and creates a new focus and new life to move forward with. 

8. Fun and play

Pet's souls are of a different structure than human souls. They don't have the same free will that us humans have so they don't have karma to settle or anything like that. They just go straight to a place of peace and joy. Fun is the most common energy I feel from them in my readings. They just play and have fun and gather with other animals while they wait for you. Just pure joy and fun. 

9. Some reincarnate into another pet later on 

Sometimes some pet souls will actually reincarnate into another pet with you later on. So pay attention to any similar mannerisms it could be the same pet you lost years before. It doesn't have to be the same kind of animal either. So pay attention they could be with you and you don't even realize it! 

10. Their love will always be with you

They may not be here physically anymore but their soul will always be with you. Anytime you want to tap into their love just think about them and they will be right there with you. That pure love can never die. Feel that love and carry it forward with you always. 

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11 Things Not To Do If You Want To Attract Love

Are you trying hard to find love but it's not working?

Are you doing these 11 things that are blocking a genuine love from coming into your life?

Here is what not to do when trying to attract love:

1. Holding on to old relationships 

Always let go and move forward from past relationships. Holding on only blocks you from moving forward. Focus on the lessons you learned from that relationship and bring that with you but leave the rest behind.

Don't treat new relationships any different because of past hurt. Don't take out previous pain on a new partner. Really work that out before you move on. Take the lessons you learned but leave the rest behind and start fresh with each new person. 

You want to move forward and not stay stuck in the past. You can never do that if you are replaying the past and criticizing past mistakes. Either regretting the past or wishing you were still in it will always block you from moving forward. 

If you are hanging on to old relationships you are closing the space for a new love to come in. Work through and fully grieve old relationships so you can open up space to move forward with new love.  

2. Lack of self love

It's so important to love yourself first because if you don't love you, you cannot attract others that will love you. If you aren't treating yourself right you won't attract others that will treat you right.

Take a good look at how you are treating yourself. Negative self talk? That will attract others that will talk down to you. Not trusting or believing in yourself? That will attract others that won't trust you or that you won't trust. 

3. Living in energies that repel love 

Before you can attract anything into your life you must add more of that same energy to your life. Are you looking for stability when it comes to love? If so look at where you are unstable in your life and make changes. 

If any element of your life is unstable, it's very important to work on that. Instability will only attract someone that is unstable. Really look close at each area of your life and take new steps to work on any areas that aren't stable.

This goes for anything you are looking for in love fun, comfort, etc. Whatever it is you are looking to attract in a partner really focus on adding more of that into you life in all areas.  

We are whole beings and must align every area of our life to what we want not just the one area we are working on. 

4. Too much focus on everyone else's problems

Don't focus on other people and what they are doing to you. Focus on what you are doing to attract them in the first place. We only have control over ourselves no one else. 

Nothing ever just happens to us we create everything in our life with our choices. The good news is by making some new choices you can get what you want. 

5. Feeling desperate

Desperation when looking for love will only lead you into desperate situations and attract those that will only hurt you. 

Know that happiness can only be found in yourself. Do not expect love to fill your happiness need. Yes love can make you happy but it's the cherry on top after you have found your happiness inside of you first. 

Being happy within yourself and not needing love to fulfill you is the best way to attract love to you. Looking for anyone else to fulfill you will never lead to anything and will only leave you empty inside. 

The beautiful thing is that you can find love and happiness within yourself without needing anyone else. Focus on your passion and your purpose and that will lead you there. If you don't know your purpose I can find it for you in a Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing which you can get on my website. 

6. Not fully expressing yourself

When you keep things in and don't express yourself you aren't being your genuine self and can never attract a real genuine love. Be yourself and say what you feel when you feel it. You want to attract someone that will fall in love with you not with who you are pretending to be. 

7. Seeing yourself as having baggage

We have all made mistakes and have a past. See it as all learning experiences that made you the wonderful person you are now. When you see it as baggage, a weight, or problem you put out to the world that you aren't worthy. Instead be thankful for all you have learned and gained from those experiences and put that foot forward. 

8. Only focusing on the negatives in your life

Focusing on the negative will only attract more negative to you especially in relationships. Every negative thing you go through is there to teach you something to lead you to a better place. Look for the lessons in these negative experiences and make new choices to get out of them instead of just dwelling and lingering in them. They are always a tool to move onto a better life but you must look deep and find those lessons and make the necessary changes. 

There is always a new choice you can make as a step out of any situation. Focus on the positives and what you do have so you can attract more positive into your life. 

This especially applies to negative thoughts about yourself. Being happy with yourself is so important in attracting the right person for you. If you aren't happy with yourself the person you attract cannot ever be completely happy with you either. 

9. Not having fun in your life

Fun and laughter is a big love attraction magnet. Think about it aren't you more attracted to someone that is happy and having fun? Purposely find ways to have more fun and laugh in whatever way works for you. 

10. Not taking care of yourself

Nurture and be sure not to neglect yourself. When you neglect yourself you can only attract those that will neglect you as well. You must always put yourself first which in turn you will have more to give to others. Always put your oxygen mask on first. 

11. Expecting love to save you

Love is two whole people that come together to make things even better for each other. Never expect someone to come in and save you or make you feel fulfilled inside. Only you can find your own happiness and fulfillment. No one can magically do that for you. 

But once you have found that in yourself, love can help that grow even more and is the perfect cherry at the top of the sundae. But you must build that sundae by yourself first! 

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What Is Your Life's Purpose and Why Do So Many Get It Wrong?

When you are living your purpose things just fall right into place but if you aren't, life can feel really hard and you will just feel stuck. 

When you are perfectly aligned to your purpose you can tell because you will become more and more abundant in all areas of your life. 

Our purpose in life is never a specific job like most think. Our purpose is to use our purpose gifts in whatever we choose to do. We are all Divine beings with free will.

We aren't here to do a specific thing like become a doctor or journalist etc. We are here to experience ourselves, create, and to settle karma from past lives. We can experience ourselves negatively or positively that is always up to us and the choices we make. 

As long as you can use your purpose gift in what you do you can live your purpose. If what you are doing goes against your purpose gift then that would make things difficult for you.

The more you can use your gift, the better. It's more of a progression over time to keep adding it more and more to your life. As you add more of it into your life and use it more you will be inspired with how to use it even more. 

The more you use and align your life to your gift, the better your life gets. It's a process of adding it more and more over time. As you do you get happier and happier and more peaceful and abundant. 

Aligning with and using your purpose gift can assure you experience things the most positively possible. Life will be positive and much easier! 

We create the life we want for ourselves by our choices. The more we choose to infuse our purpose gift into our lives, the better and more abundant our lives will be in all areas. 

When you don't know your gift it can be like going through life blind through the mud and can be very frustrating. When you do know your purpose gift you can be mindful and align your purpose to everything you do in life with anything from cooking to major life changes. Knowing what your gift is gives you the power over your life and a clear vision instead of walking blind through life. 

The more and more you align to your purpose and the deeper you do, the happier your life will get. 

How do you know what your purpose gift is? 

Our purpose gifts are usually things we don't see as gifts because they come so easily to us that we think everyone can do it too but they can't. 

Some have more than one purpose gift and need to be sure to incorporate both into all they do. Think about what comes really easy to you? Your purpose will never be something you have to struggle to learn or get it will just be natural and easy. 

So what comes so easy to you that you don't even think it is a special gift? Working on finding your purpose is the best thing you can do for yourself and everyone around you. 

It can be hard for some to realize their purpose gifts on their own because over many lives we all create blocks from who we are which can make it harder and harder to know and use your purpose gift. Our negative choices create those blocks. Everyone is different and a negative choice for one person could be a positive choice for another. There isn't a set of rules that works for everyone that's why knowing who you are and what's positive and negative for you is so important! 

A negative choice is one that goes against who you are at soul level and against your purpose. A positive choice aligns with it. I promise positive choices will make you much happier and save you a lot of trouble! 

If you are stuck and have trouble knowing and using your purpose gift I can get you that information plus clear those blocks that have been created from life to life to make it easier to align to your purpose. I can do that and so much more in a Soul Realignment Reading and Clearing. The full info on it is here:

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Here Are The 5 Most Important Things You Must Do To Attract Love

Are your actions attracting love or blocking it from your life?  

Are you doing the 5 things that must be done to attract love?  Find out here: 

1. Love yourself. 

This may seem cliche but it is so important. If you don't love yourself or you are always putting yourself down you will only attract those that won't truly love you and that will also put you down. 

How you treat yourself will be directly reflected in who you attract to you. Learn to admire yourself and be confident! 

Don't compare yourself to others, love your amazing qualities! Confidence attracts love. Think about it do you want someone that is insecure and down on themselves all the time? No, you want someone that is confident! If you aren't confident in yourself, no one else can be either! 

Work through any insecurities you have and know that you are exactly who you should be. Love is attracted to fun and confident. Let down the walls you have built up, love yourself and have some fun! 

2. Don't be overly focused on finding love. 

Unfortunately, love only comes when you least expect it and aren't really looking for it. When you are desperately looking for love an energy of desperation comes through and that can never attract love. 

Focus on finding that happiness within you first and put your energy into that instead. Happiness can only be found within yourself then once you do that love is the cherry on top! 

3. Let go of the past

You cannot be holding onto an ex or stuck in the past and also move forward with love. So really look back and be sure you have fully moved forward. Work through and close any past chapters so you can be free to move forward.

You can never move forward if part of you is still stuck in the past. Look into all areas of your past not just relationships. 

Are there emotions you haven't dealt with and things you haven't faced yet? Really focus on settling those things so you can free yourself up for love! Holding onto the past only takes up the space where love goes. Empty that space so you are really ready for love! 

4. Express your true self. 

Be yourself! Let your true self free! Hiding or being secretive can never attract true love. That only attracts more secretiveness and attracts those that can't be attracted to your true self which always ends badly.

Always speak up and say how you feel, never push anything under the rug or ignore any red flags. You must be your authentic self to attract authentic love. 

5. Don't ever look for someone to save you

Don't ever go into it thinking you need to be saved. To really find love you need to be whole in yourself first then love is the cherry on top. 

Looking for someone to save you will only turn into an unbalanced and unhealthy relationship. Remember only you can save yourself no one else can do that for you. 

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10 Steps To Find and Harness Motivation To Reach Your Goals

1. Know what you want

The first step is to really figure out what you want. Not what others want for you but what you want. For some this may be hard if you are used to always doing what others want or what society says you should. 

You are your own person and are here to express yourself. Really focus on getting to the core of what you want.

2. Be sure you really want the goal in order to be motivated to manifest it. 

Make sure this goal is something you really want because you can't manifest something you don't really want. Make sure you are doing it for you not for anyone else. Working towards a goal is not always easy but wanting it badly helps to push you towards it. 

3. See the goal

Really envision, see, feel, and taste the desired goal. Think about what would change in your life if you reach it. Really feel it like it has already happened. 

4. Be specific 

Be specific with your intentions and go over them everyday so your spirit guides know what you want. Our guides help us to get what we want so if we aren't clear they can't help us.

Similarly, if you are continuing to do and accept things that you don't want in your life your guide will help you get more of what you don't want. This continues and becomes a vicious cycle.

Our choices, our actions, show our guides what we want and if we keep making choices that we don't really want we will continue to be guided to what we don't want.  We have free will and our guides can only help us create what we want which is shown by our choices. 

Are you staying in a job you hate and telling yourself you don't have a choice? Staying in a bad relationship? Staying and not taking active steps to make a change tells your guides you want to stay in a job or relationship you hate. 

But if you start taking active steps in another direction and show your guides that you want different, then your guides can help you. That's when "coincidences" show up and the right things will seem to just fall in your lap at the right time. 

The more clear you are with your intentions the more your guides can help you. Always remember your life is like clay and you are the only artist. Mold it exactly how you want! Don't limit yourself! You can have it all if you are willing to put the work in. 

5. Plan out the steps to get there

Figure out the actions to get there and do it. Just one small step can help with that motivation and get the ball rolling. 

You must do something new to reach a goal. What you are doing now is creating what you have now. You can never do the same thing and get different results. 

Don't overwhelm yourself with all that you have to do, just focus on one step at a time then when that's done move to the next one. 

Start by figuring out what the first step toward that goal is. As you complete each step, the next one will then become clear to you. So don't worry about figuring out every single step ahead of time. Have a general outline but just start with the first step then go from there. 

6. Schedule it!

If you don't schedule it, it won't happen! Make time to put into your goals and don't put it off. Put it on your calendar and make it non negotiable! 

7. Just start!

Starting is the hardest part for most people but once you do and get that ball rolling it gets easier from there so just push through and take that first step. 

8. Be prepared to be uncomfortable 

Know that there will be something that will go wrong before you reach your goal. As you change your vibration to meet the goal for a little bit you will be in between vibrations which can feel uncomfortable. This is normal and a sign that you are closer to your goal. Unfortunately this is the point most people give up. 

Most people think when it gets hard or uncomfortable that that's a sign to stop and that it's not meant to be but it actually means you are close to your goal so keep going. 

Knowing this will definitely happen and you can't reach your goal without it, helps so you are prepared. Plan for bumps in the road and plan to be uncomfortable. 

See it as a sign that you are close and have done great work so far! Know it is a good thing and just push right through it! When it does get uncomfortable or mishaps start happening, take more action to get out of that in between space. The more new actions you take towards your goal, the quicker you will get out of the uncomfortable part. 

9. Ignore the fear

Is fear stopping you? Change will always be a little scary at first but don't let that stop you. The more fear means the more possibility for bigger change/results. Fear can actually be a sign that this will be a wonderful big change for you! Harness that fear and use it as energy to push forward as you keep laser focused on your goal. Whatever you do don't let it stop you! 

10. Don't regret not doing it

Think about what if this is your last day on earth. What would you wish you did? 

Zero in on what's important to you and what you would regret if you didn't accomplish before you crossed over. Those are the most important goals to work on. 

I hear from those on the other side all the time wishing they did more. Go after what you want now! You never know how much longer you have left on earth. Make the most of it!

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10 Ways To Implement Healthy Boundaries To Change Your Life For The Better

Do you say yes when you want to and should say no? Are you putting yourself last? Are you depleted?

You create your life with every choice that you make. If you don't have boundaries you are only creating an unhappy and depleted life.  

Here are 10 ways to implement healthy boundaries that can change your life for the better:

1. The first step is to evaluate your life. Ask yourself these questions: Who am I surrounding myself with that I don't want? Who is only causing me pain and not enriching my life? What am I doing or taking on that I don't want to be?

Really get a clear plan of what you do and don't want in every area of your life. Knowing and getting clear about that ahead of time helps you to be more confident when you say no or implement a boundary. Really take time to dissect this, it is very important.

Know ahead of time exactly what you want and will accept in a relationship, at work, with your family, and in all areas of your life. Be clear with yourself and others about your boundaries up front and don't stray from them.  

2. The next step is to ask yourself why am I allowing this? Why am I accepting less than I should? Really look deep. Do you feel like you aren't good enough to live the life you want? Do you think someone else is superior to you? No one is ever superior, we are all important.

Those are the usual reasons people accept less than they deserve but look deep into your reasons.

You are good enough and every single one of us can have that happy life but it's up to each one of us to create it ourselves. Every single thing in your life you created by your choices.

The wonderful news is once you realize that and start making new choices you can create it exactly how you want!

As you accept one thing or one person in your life that you shouldn't, it only causes a domino effect and opens the door to accept more and more.

It also opens the door for illness to be allowed into your life because you are accepting more of what you don't want. The universe thinks that's what want and gives you more and more which becomes a vicious cycle.

3. After looking closely at what and who you are accepting that you shouldn't and why you are, now it's time to fix that going forward.

From now on, be strong in your boundaries and do not accept what you don't want. Don't just give in and settle.

By accepting it you are only saying that you want that. Don't go against your own feelings and gut. Trust yourself and feel secure that you know what is best for you.

Don't settle because you think that's the best you can get. You have unlimited opportunities so don't settle for any less than you want.

4. Don't say yes when you should say no. When you do that you say to yourself that you don't deserve to say no and you aren't good enough. In essence you are telling yourself and the universe that you are less than and you don't deserve what you want.

You are good enough and you never have to say yes when you don't want to. Don't take on more than you should. Always leave time for you to recharge. That way you can actually get much more done in the long run.

5. Be really clear on what you want and what you don't want. Knowing yourself clearly and knowing what you do want can help you to realize what you don't want right away and stop it immediately.

6. Boundaries with your time are important. So many forget about this one but having your own time is an important part of setting boundaries. Always make sure to schedule some time for yourself.

7. Boundaries in relationships. Do you give up your whole self when you are in a relationship? A relationship is much stronger if you know yourself and you have things just for you.

Be sure to not lose sight of the things you want and what you want to do. There should be a balance where you both have your own thing that is just for yourself.  

8. Boundaries at work can be tricky but are important. Do you let someone take advantage and take on more work than is right? Doing more than your job description can be a great way to get ahead but just be sure you are doing it because you want to, not because you feel obligated.

Really know your roll and think about what is appropriate and what isn't.

Having a clear understanding ahead of time will help you to implement those boundaries when the time comes. In a calm but confident tone just say "no that won't work for me" or "that will put too much on my schedule."

Don't think you have to have that overwhelming schedule. So many think that is just life but it's not. You create that and can make changes.

Not everything is actually necessary and there are always ways to make changes and do things a little differently. Always remember you are in control and you can create a new job for yourself or a new system or relationship etc.

Don't ever get stuck thinking this is how it has to be you can always make changes to make things how you want. It may take time and work and some uncomfortability along the way, but you can do it. It's your life you have full control.

9. Be okay with people not being happy about a boundary you create at first. As you start implementing these changes at first people in your life are going to push back and not like these boundaries, do them anyway.

They are used to walking over you and that's what they know. Eventually they will end up respecting you more and if not maybe it's time to remove them from your life.

Don't let the fear of losing people or hurting them stop you from creating healthy boundaries for yourself. If they do leave they shouldn't of been in your life in the first place. These healthy boundaries will also help you to attract healthier relationships into your life.

10. Know the incentives to good boundaries. One thing to help incentivize boundaries is if you don't have them difficult lessons around those boundaries will keep showing up in your life over and over until you do it. This will become an annoying vicious cycle that having boundaries upfront can eliminate.

Without boundaries you will only attract more and more people that will take advantage of your lack of boundaries but once you have those boundaries secure and unwavering then you won't attract that sort of thing anymore.

Think about boundaries as a fence around your personal space. When you allow things you don't want that personal space which is your life becomes someone else's space, someone else's life.

This is your life to create and live how you want to. Don't let others invade and take over your life!

Boundaries are the fence to protect the life you want. Don't allow that fence to be broken down and broken into. Protect your life fence with all you have!

A "yes I'll take on too much for me" here and a "sure you can walk over me" there and before you know it your life isn't yours anymore.

There is only a certain amount of time and when you take on more than you can, you inevitably give up part of yourself and neglect you. If you neglect you, you are no good to anyone.

Unfortunately so many have broken down their life fence long ago and can't even see how it can be repaired. Just take it one step at a time and before you know it a beautiful, impenetrable fence will protect the life you want.

It's important to know and acknowledge that you allowed any lack of boundaries that are in your life now. Know you are in control and can now create those boundaries you need to thrive and create what you do want.

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