11 Ways To Break Out Of A Rut & Change Your Life When You Feel Completely Lost

So many tend to get stuck in the day to day and lose sight of what's important. We can't move forwards if all we do is stay stuck in that day to day rut. Here are some tips to break through that:


1. Everyday make time to focus on what you do want and what steps you can take to get there.


2. Put things in perspective and look at the bigger picture. 


Think about what if you died today? What would matter and what wouldn't? What would you wish you did? Really live your life focused on what does matter and what you want. 


3. Benefit from those that have already crossed over and listen to what really matters. 


 In all the readings I have done, those on the otherside are able to easily see what really mattered and what didn't. Those still on earth can have trouble with that. Really think often about how you would feel if you died right now. Did you get what you wanted to accomplished? Did you let day to day life distract you? Did you say what you wanted to say? Did you try what you always wanted to? Did you go where you always wanted? Did you just let life pass you by? 


4. Take control of your life and create it how you want.


So many don't realize that they can actually do this. Society has a way of making us believe that we have to do so many things that we really don't. This is your life, create it how you want to. Life doesn't have to be this rat race of doing something you hate everyday. You can get out of that but you have to choose to take the steps towards doing what you want. 


5.  Make a list of all the things that are important to you and start making them a priority. 


If you don't make what you want a priority, life will pass you by and you will never get there. It's up to you and only you. Nothing will ever just drop onto your lap you need to make it happen.


6. Say the things you want to those you love everyday. Don't ever let anything go unsaid that you will regret if one of you crosses over.


7. Schedule it! If you don't schedule it, it won't happen! Make time for what's important! 


8. You must do something different.


Do anything different to get your creative juices flowing even if it doesn't seem to have anything to do with what you want. Sometimes just a little change can help us get out of that stuckness and help us see clearer what the next step is. 


9. Focus on one step at a time.


Thinking about the whole long way to the goal at once will only overwhelm you. There is always at least one small step you can take towards what you want. Start there and the momentum will show you to the next step and then the next. We can't always see the whole way of how to get there when we start but you can see the next step. Take small manageable steps if you feel overwhelmed but the key is to do something. 


10. Don't allow anything to stop you from your goal. 


As we change our vibration and get close to a goal, resistance will always show up. That resistance tells us we are getting close to achievement. That resistance will include drama, things breaking, changing our mind about if we really want the goal, telling ourselves that we have done so well and can take a break etc. So many stop at that point thinking it's not meant to be. The key to remember is that  resistance actually means you are so close to that goal and you have to keep going. 


As we change our vibration to match a goal, for a little while we end up in between vibrations which is uncomfortable and causes that resistance. The only way to push through that is to keep taking action to get where you want to be. The bigger and more action you take, the sooner you can break through the hard part. 


11. Follow through with new action.


The only way to get something different in your life is to start doing something different. If you have to take small steps do that but do something. Don't let your life slip away without doing what you really want! Figure out what is most important to you and start focusing on it. Today, not tomorrow. When we put things off they are unlikely to ever happen. You never know how many days you have left, make the most of each one! This is your life what do you want it to be? 


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